Planning to tie the knot in San Mateo County and considering a confidential marriage license? Let’s explore what it entails and how you can obtain one.

What Is a Confidential Marriage License?

A confidential marriage license in California is a private record, accessible only to the married couple. Unlike a public marriage license, it isn’t part of the public record, offering an extra layer of privacy. This option is ideal for couples who prefer to keep their marriage details confidential.

Eligibility Criteria

To qualify for a confidential marriage license in San Mateo County, you must meet the following requirements:

• Both parties must be at least 18 years old.
• You must be living together as spouses at the time of application and sign an affidavit confirming this.
• Both individuals must present valid government-issued photo identification.

It’s important to note that minors are not eligible for a confidential marriage license. ([cdph.ca.gov](https://www.cdph.ca.gov/Programs/CHSI/Pages/Types-of-Marriage-Licenses-.aspx?utm_source=openai))

Application Process

Here’s how you can apply for a confidential marriage license in San Mateo County:

1. Visit the County Clerk’s Office: Both parties must appear in person at the San Mateo County Clerk’s Office, located at 555 County Center, First Floor, Redwood City, CA 94063. Office hours are Monday through Friday, 8 a.m. to 4:30 p.m. ([smcacre.gov](https://smcacre.gov/county-clerk-recorder/applying-marriage-license?utm_source=openai))
2. Complete the Application: Fill out the marriage license application. To expedite the process, you can complete the application online before your visit. ([smcacre.gov](https://smcacre.gov/county-clerk-recorder/applying-marriage-license?utm_source=openai))
3. Provide Identification: Present valid government-issued photo IDs for both parties.
4. Pay the Fee: As of the latest information, the fee for a confidential marriage license in San Mateo County is $80. Payment can be made via cash or credit/debit card (Visa or Mastercard only). ([smcacre.gov](https://smcacre.gov/county-clerk-recorder/applying-marriage-license?utm_source=openai))

Marriage Ceremony and License Return

Once you have your confidential marriage license:

• Ceremony: You can have your marriage ceremony anywhere in California. Unlike public marriage licenses, no witnesses are required for a confidential marriage ceremony. ([cdph.ca.gov](https://www.cdph.ca.gov/Programs/CHSI/Pages/Types-of-Marriage-Licenses-.aspx?utm_source=openai))
• License Return: After the ceremony, the officiant must return the completed marriage license to the San Mateo County Clerk’s Office for registration within 10 days. ([smcacre.gov](https://smcacre.gov/county-clerk-recorder/instructions-completing-your-marriage-license?utm_source=openai))

Obtaining Certified Copies

After your marriage is registered, you may want certified copies of your marriage certificate. For confidential marriages:

• Only the married couple can obtain certified copies.
• Requests must be made in person with valid photo identification.
• Each certified copy costs $17. ([smcacre.gov](https://smcacre.gov/county-clerk-recorder/applying-marriage-license?utm_source=openai))

Remember, confidential marriage records are not available to the public, ensuring your privacy. ([cdph.ca.gov](https://www.cdph.ca.gov/Programs/CHSI/Pages/Types-of-Marriage-Licenses-.aspx?utm_source=openai))

FAQs

1. Can we apply for a confidential marriage license online?

While you can complete the application online to save time, both parties must appear in person at the County Clerk’s Office to finalize the process. ([smcacre.gov](https://smcacre.gov/county-clerk-recorder/applying-marriage-license?utm_source=openai))

2. Do we need to be residents of San Mateo County to apply?

No, there is no residency requirement. You can apply for a marriage license in any California county, regardless of where you live. ([smcacre.gov](https://smcacre.gov/county-clerk-recorder/how-get-married-california?utm_source=openai))

3. How long is the confidential marriage license valid?

The license is valid for 90 days from the date of issuance. You must have your ceremony within this period. ([smcacre.gov](https://smcacre.gov/county-clerk-recorder/applying-marriage-license?utm_source=openai))

4. Can we have our ceremony outside of San Mateo County?

Yes, you can have your ceremony anywhere in California, regardless of where you obtained your marriage license. ([cdph.ca.gov](https://www.cdph.ca.gov/Programs/CHSI/Pages/Types-of-Marriage-Licenses-.aspx?utm_source=openai))

5. How do we obtain a certified copy of our confidential marriage certificate?

Only the married couple can request certified copies by appearing in person at the County Clerk’s Office with valid identification. ([cdph.ca.gov](https://www.cdph.ca.gov/Programs/CHSI/Pages/Types-of-Marriage-Licenses-.aspx?utm_source=openai))

For more detailed information or assistance, feel free to contact the San Mateo County Clerk’s Office directly. ([smcacre.gov](https://smcacre.gov/county-clerk-recorder/applying-marriage-license?utm_source=openai))

Considering a confidential marriage license is a significant step toward ensuring your privacy. If you have further questions or need assistance with the process, don’t hesitate to reach out to us at Married Today CA. We’re here to help make your special day as smooth and memorable as possible.

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