Confidently Planning Your California Marriage: Checklist for the Ceremony & License

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Planning your wedding in California is an exciting journey, and ensuring all legal aspects are covered will make your special day seamless. Here’s a comprehensive checklist to guide you through obtaining your marriage license and preparing for the ceremony.

1. Understand the Marriage License Requirements

Before you can say “I do,” you’ll need to obtain a marriage license. In California, both parties must be at least 18 years old and present valid, unexpired identification. There is no residency requirement, so even out-of-state couples can get married here. Remember, marriage by proxy is not allowed; both parties must be physically present. ([cdph.ca.gov](https://www.cdph.ca.gov/Programs/CHSI/Pages/California-Marriage-License-General-Information.aspx?utm_source=openai))

2. Choose Between a Public or Confidential Marriage License

California offers two types of marriage licenses:

  • Public Marriage License: Requires one witness and becomes a public record. ([cdph.ca.gov](https://www.cdph.ca.gov/Programs/CHSI/Pages/California-Marriage-License-General-Information.aspx?utm_source=openai))
  • Confidential Marriage License: Available to couples who have been living together as spouses. No witness is required, and the record is confidential. ([cdph.ca.gov](https://www.cdph.ca.gov/Programs/CHSI/Pages/California-Marriage-License-General-Information.aspx?utm_source=openai))

3. Apply for the Marriage License

Visit any California County Clerk’s office to apply for your marriage license. Some counties offer online applications, but both parties must appear in person to finalize the process. Fees vary by county, so check with the specific office for details. ([cdph.ca.gov](https://www.cdph.ca.gov/Programs/CHSI/Pages/California-Marriage-License-General-Information.aspx?utm_source=openai))

4. Plan Your Ceremony

Decide on the type of ceremony you want. California allows various officiants, including ministers, priests, rabbis, judges, and even a friend or relative deputized for a day. Ensure your chosen officiant is legally recognized to perform marriages in California. ([cdph.ca.gov](https://www.cdph.ca.gov/Programs/CHSI/Pages/California-Marriage-License-General-Information.aspx?utm_source=openai))

5. Arrange for Witnesses

For a public marriage license, at least one witness is required during the ceremony. While there’s no minimum age for witnesses, they must be competent to sign the license. ([cdph.ca.gov](https://www.cdph.ca.gov/Programs/CHSI/Pages/California-Marriage-License-General-Information.aspx?utm_source=openai))

6. Conduct the Ceremony

On your wedding day, ensure the officiant and witness(es) sign the marriage license. The officiant is responsible for returning the completed license to the County Clerk’s office within 10 days of the ceremony. ([cdph.ca.gov](https://www.cdph.ca.gov/Programs/CHSI/Pages/California-Marriage-License-General-Information.aspx?utm_source=openai))

7. Obtain Certified Copies of the Marriage Certificate

After the license is recorded, you can request certified copies of your marriage certificate for your records. This document serves as legal proof of your marriage. ([cdph.ca.gov](https://www.cdph.ca.gov/Programs/CHSI/Pages/California-Marriage-License-General-Information.aspx?utm_source=openai))

8. Consider Name Changes

If you plan to change your name after marriage, decide on the new name before applying for the license, as it will be recorded on the document. ([cdph.ca.gov](https://www.cdph.ca.gov/Programs/CHSI/Pages/California-Marriage-License-General-Information.aspx?utm_source=openai))

9. Be Aware of Timeframes

Marriage licenses in California are valid for 90 days from the date of issuance. Ensure your ceremony takes place within this period to avoid reapplying. ([cdph.ca.gov](https://www.cdph.ca.gov/Programs/CHSI/Pages/California-Marriage-License-General-Information.aspx?utm_source=openai))

10. Seek Professional Assistance

For a smooth experience, consider consulting with professionals who specialize in California marriages. They can provide personalized guidance and ensure all legal requirements are met.

FAQs

Q: Can we get married the same day we obtain our marriage license in California?

A: Yes, California does not have a waiting period, so you can get married on the same day you obtain your marriage license. ([cdph.ca.gov](https://www.cdph.ca.gov/Programs/CHSI/Pages/California-Marriage-License-General-Information.aspx?utm_source=openai))

Q: Do we need to be California residents to get married there?

A: No, there is no residency requirement to marry in California. ([cdph.ca.gov](https://www.cdph.ca.gov/Programs/CHSI/Pages/California-Marriage-License-General-Information.aspx?utm_source=openai))

Q: How do we obtain a certified copy of our marriage certificate?

A: After your marriage license is recorded, you can request certified copies from the County Clerk’s office where the license was filed. ([cdph.ca.gov](https://www.cdph.ca.gov/Programs/CHSI/Pages/California-Marriage-License-General-Information.aspx?utm_source=openai))

Q: What if we lose our marriage license before the ceremony?

A: If you lose your marriage license before the ceremony, you’ll need to apply for a duplicate or new license from the County Clerk’s office. ([cdph.ca.gov](https://www.cdph.ca.gov/Programs/CHSI/Pages/California-Marriage-License-General-Information.aspx?utm_source=openai))

Q: Can a friend or family member officiate our wedding in California?

A: Yes, a friend or family member can officiate your wedding if they are ordained or have obtained authorization from the County Clerk’s office. ([cdph.ca.gov](https://www.cdph.ca.gov/Programs/CHSI/Pages/California-Marriage-License-General-Information.aspx?utm_source=openai))

Planning your wedding should be a joyful experience. By following this checklist, you can confidently navigate the legal requirements and focus on celebrating your love. For more personalized assistance, feel free to contact us at Married Today CA.

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